Gay/Straight/Lesbian Who Really Cares?
Well I thought that I was doing something I liked, by discussing the things we mothers go through on a daily basis with our kids, and families...and we all go through similar issues, and I'm kind of disappointed by the fact that I was recently told by a comment that I didn't place on my blog that "straight mothers don't want to blog with gay women because we have nothing in common" End Quote" Hmmm.....well I thought that was the most ignorant thing I have heard in a long time and believe me being a lesbian,black & in a interracial relationship with bi-racial kids I really thought I heard it all! I know my web page is about keeping it real and here I want people to say the things they cant say to anyone else here on my blog but I just wont tolerate ignorance. So I'm not giving her the satisfaction of putting her name on my blog, but what I will do is comment on this for anyone else who feels this way. First and foremost we are all women we bleed the same,we pay bills,we work, we live our lives just like any other human being living on this plant...so in that sense we do have things in common. And even if you fell like you can't call me a mother or mom because I'm gay then don't because that word only means more to me when my kids are saying it so you don't have to recognize me as anyone...even thou I think its really sad for another person to down grade someone for difference or things they don't know or understand. I wanted to create this blog for all women straight & gay because no matter what our kids are still kids and we all no kids go through the same things that's how they got some much information on children to write so many books about them. So my kids don't fly up to the moon at night,or start house fires nor do they eat birds or drink bat blood.....no my children do all the same things your children do eat, sleep and breath. I was hoping that we as women could come together on things that really bother us at home and share our stories and give helpful tips to each other. So if you believe that I shouldn't blog or you don't want to blog with me than don't because me and my family judge people on their character, we treat all people with respect and last but not least my family has an open heart to anyone who has an open mind and the respect to learn.:)
I love my family with every fiber of my being, And we are great mothers!
save your judgemental & hurtful comments for people like you!
Labels: bias, judgemental, lesbian books, lesbian families, lesbian mothers
posted by Mommy at
11:35 PM
4 Comments:
I read your post on this at fox2detroit.com message board & to be honest who we sleep with in our bedrooms is no one else business, not the government, mom/dad or friend there is A LOT of worse things in our world like child molesters, rapist, drug dealers, murderers... etc so if people took all that useless energy they are focusing in on who you love and sleep with at the end of the night and use it to get TOUGHER penalties for the real wrong doers we wouldn't have some many repeat offenders in rape, murder, child molestation take a look at how much time a sexual offender of a child would get from raping one of our kids U would be discussed to know most of the get less then a year. NOW WHAT SEEMS MORE IMPORTANT!!!!!
I think who ever that mom was has a horrible life because everyone knows the joys and pains of being mom. Maybe her life is'nt so great & she likes to make other people lives horrbile so your a mom in the eyes of the ones of cares.
Just passing through and read your blog - couldn't agree more. I just really hope that mom is not teaching her children her judgmental ways. Just what we need in this world, more bigots.
Let it roll off your back, I like your blog and plan to come back soon :)
Hi...fellow Mom....
I read your blog and I am also annoyed at people such as those who have nothing better to do than be ignorant with others. You would think that in this day and age we would be over it. It's your choice who you sleep with. No one elses. And wether or not your gay/straight it does not mean your a better or worse parents than the other. Forget about people like that, live your life and
keep your head up!!
Great site.
I'll be back!
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